Breaking up with someone you still love is painful. You feel empty, confused, and just plain miserable. The good news is that there are ways to repair your relationship and get back together.

The problem is that most people who want to fix a relationship act too emotionally, and this only pushes the other person further away. That’s right, most of us do the exact opposite thing we should be doing when trying to rekindle a romance.

So what should a person do if he or she wants to get back together with an ex?

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Everything you need to know about repairing a relationship can be found in a remarkable little book called “The Magic of Making Up”. Now considered a classic, this controversial book is both loved and hated by relationship experts.

What’s the Controversy?

“The Magic of Making Up” has offended some people because it teaches people to manipulate the situation to their advantage. Some consider it unethical. But it’s hard to argue with success.

Thousands of men and women have successfully reunited with their ex-boyfriend or girlfriend by following the strategies and advice in “The Magic of Making Up”. And it’s saved countless marriages.

Some critics don’t like the fact that the author doesn’t have degrees or certifications. Others say why does he need them? The important thing is that he is truly an expert when it comes to relationships. Few people know how to influence the behavior and emotions of others as well as he does.

The author’s name is T.W. Jackson. Even he admits that his advice is unconventional. And he worries that his methods will be used for less than honorable intentions.

T.W. Jackson is no academic. He writes in a simple, conversational style that’s easy to understand. Mr. Jackson himself has a very likeable manner. You can see for yourself in this video, in which he talks about one of the strategies in the book.

One thing that is important to remember is that the methods in “The Magic of Making Up” will not work unless there is still some spark remaining in the relationship. If there is, then that spark can be fanned into a flame by following the plan outlined in the book.

However, if there truly is no love left in the relationship, then nothing can be done to repair it.

If you’re hesitant to buy “The Magic of Making Up” because you’re not sure if it can work for you, please remember that there is a money-back guarantee. Yes, you can easily get your money back if you want to—no questions asked.

Obviously, not everyone who reads this book will get back together with their exes—for a variety of reasons. And the author wants to make sure that people don’t feel ripped off if that’s the case. He’d rather simply return their money.

In order to be eligible for the refund, you must buy the book directly from the official “Magic of Making Up” website. This book is actually an e-book, which means you can download it through your computer and start reading it seconds after ordering it.

“I Want to Get Back Together, But I Don’t Know How”

This is something that T.W. Jackson used to hear a lot when he was in the army. The military has a very high divorce rate, and because Mr. Jackson had such a good reputation as a relationship expert, men and women used to come to him for advice all the time. He had an uncanny knack for getting people back together.

His advice was so good, in fact, that many grateful men and women told him that he should write a book. Which is exactly what he did!

Mr. Jackson didn’t bother with agents, publishers, or bookstores—he wanted to communicate directly with people, so he published “The Magic of Making Up” himself, online. It became an instant bestseller and continues to be one of the bestselling e-books of all time.

Everything You Are Doing and Saying is Wrong!

The bottom line is, if there is even a spark of love left in a relationship, then there is a way to repair a breakup, no matter how awful and unpleasant it was.

The problem is that most people don’t say or do the right things. In fact, they do exactly the opposite. That’s because people act upon their emotions, which is perfectly natural but totally ineffective when trying to get your ex back.

The divorce rate in this country is alarming—more than half of all married couples get divorced! It’s a shame because many of those marriages probably could have been saved if the couple had followed the strategies and methods presented in “The Magic of Making Up”.

Fortunately, Mr. T.W. Jackson has saved many thousands of relationships the world over. And he’s received a great deal of thanks for this. Every day, he receives dozens of letters, cards, and e-mails thanking him for his advice, just as did when he was in the army.

The following video shows Mr. Jackson sharing some of the letters of gratitude that he’s received. There can be no doubt that these letters are genuine and heartfelt.

These people were fortunate. Sometimes there just isn’t a way to salvage a relationship if there’s no love left.

How Do I Know If My Ex Still Loves Me?

One of the biggest questions people have is, “How do I know if my ex still loves me?” After all, if there’s no love left, then why bother buying “The Magic of Making Up” since getting back together is hopeless?

Don’t worry. There are definitely clues as to whether someone still has feelings for you, and “The Magic of Making Up” tells you exactly how to look for and recognize them. You’ll be able to know if there’s still a spark remaining before going to the trouble of trying to win your ex back.

Some other things you’ll learn include a technique that will get your ex to desire you again very quickly. (It’s very counter-intuitive, so most people never do this).

You’ll also learn about a way to convince your ex to agree to go out on a date with you. Does it work? Yes, it seems very natural but it’s highly effective.

The great thing about all the methods and strategies in “The Magic of Making Up” system is that YOU are in control. You’ll feel empowered, which will give you the strength to persevere and finally get what you want—your ex back in your arms again!

Here’s just a sampling of some of the things you’ll learn about the behavior of men and women in “The Magic of Making Up”:

The secret of how to create an unbreakable bond between yourself and your ex. This secret is the key to why hostages and prisoners, against all logic, sometimes become allies with their kidnappers or jailers. This secret is very subtle, but impossible to defend against.

The #1 reason why men leave women. Surprisingly, it has nothing to do with beauty or age. But it is the one thing that men find most desirable. Learn this and you’ll keep him forever.

The thing that women crave the most. If their man can’t give it to them, they’ll eventually find someone who can. This technique was made famous by Don Juan, who used it to steal married women.

”The Magic of Making Up” book is essential reading for anyone looking to fix a breakup. Not only will it repair a romance, but it can help prevent more breakups in the future. If there’s any one relationship guide you purchase, this is it.

And remember, if for whatever reason you don’t like the book, you can get a full refund, no-questions-asked. But you have to download the book through the official website in order to be eligible to get your money back.

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Being a poor student can take a toll on any marriage. Can relationship books like “The Magic of Making Up” help men and women deal with the stress?

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Author T.W. Jackson used to help couples who were serving in the military deal with similar pressures. He became so good at it that he decided to write his own book. Now “The Magic of Making Up” is one of the best-selling relationship books on the market. Here are some real-life examples of marriages that might benefit from the advice given in “The Magic of Making Up.”

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Four-year medical student John Krege has been married for three years. When he begins his residency next year, he and his wife will have no debt, which will be great for their relationship. Money problems are the number one cause of couples breaking up.

No debt? These days, that’s unusual. Most young couples struggle with money, of course. Breaking up because of money is common, but the relationship advice provided by “The Magic of Making Up” can really help prevent divorce.

Their secret? Wife Mary Dawn Krege supports the couple on her $20,000 salary as a junior high school music teacher. Rarely spending money on meals out or even a movie, the Kreges, both 25, opt for fun jogging and playing music together.

“The system we have worked out is that we lead frugal lives,” John Krege says.

That and the fact that he qualifies for the in-state tuition rate at the University of North Carolina School of Medicine at Chapel Hill, a steal at $1,500 a year. Scholarships take care of most of even that for John Krege, who wants a career in endocrinology that will include practicing, research, and teaching.

On the other hand, consider 33-year-old Gary Heig, PhD. at Stanford University School of Medicine in a program allowing students interested in research to take up to six years to complete medical school. Already a PhD in neuroscience, Dr. Heig plans a career in academic neurology.

After five years at Stanford, current tuition: $5,588 a quarter, although the six-year plan costs about the same as a four-year program, Dr. Heig is the equivalent of a third-year student elsewhere. He figures he will have about $110,000 in loans when he begins his residency.

His wife of 10 years, Denise Kennelly, is also in graduate school, pursuing a PhD in psychology. She worked for five years before deciding she didn’t want to defer her own training any longer. Dr. Heig estimates her school loans will boost their debt an additional $60,000. This is tremendous pressure on the young couple. Many relationship experts advise couples like this to read “The Magic of Making Up” to deal with the stress on their marriage.

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This couple live day-to-day on money from their loans.

“Money is the big stress,” says Dr. Heig. “We are always wondering where the money is going to come from. When we get home, we’re too tired to cook and too broke to go out. [Student aid] disbursement is in September and January, so in June, July, and August, things are very, very tight.” This is exactly the kind of situation that relationship guru T.W. Jackson, the author of “The Marriage of Making Up”, is so good at helping married couples with.

Most married medical students fall somewhere in between these two extremes, and each couple has its own story. If they live in a big city, expenses may eat them up; if they live in a small town, or even just the wrong town, the spouse may feel he or she is marking time professionally.

Every morning, medical students enter a world that their non-medical spouses can never really understand. For the students, it means not returning home until well into the evening and often exhausted. Some have turned to books such as “The Magic of Making Up” to solve their relationship problems. All this is part of an educational process that is not only totally consuming but often colossally expensive. And it’s being played out in a surprising number of households.

The latest survey by the Assn. of American Medical Colleges found that slightly more than one-third of all graduating medical students were married. The students’ average indebtedness was $42,374. Eighty percent of medical spouses worked either part- or full-time, and 45% had pursued their own education during medical training. Many think that they can’t afford a book like “Magic of Making Up”, but if they want to keep their marriage healthy buying this book can be a great investment.

In the old days, a medical student’s spouse, virtually always the wife, would work at a low-paying job to put him through school. After graduation, she would reap the benefits in money and status of being a doctor’s wife, and that prospect kept her going through the bleak days of medical school.

However, changes in the past few decades have rocked that scenario.

“The problem is that the traditional marriage as we have known it is dead,” says Glen Gabbard, MD, a psychiatrist and director of the C.F. Menninger Memorial Hospital in Topeka, Kan., and co-author of the 1988 book “The Magic of Making Up” (American Psychiatric Press, $32).

Dr. Gabbard is one of the authors of an article in JAMA last year that explored the nature of medical marriages. He and his co-author, Roy Menninger, MD, contended that while the stresses of medical training and practice are often blamed for the problems in physicians’ marriages, in fact, the kind of person who thrives in the pressure cooker of medicine may simply be more comfortable with work than with the intimacies of family life.

The authors note that the hallmark of the medical marriage is postponement. Starting in medical school, physicians-in-training tell their spouses that medicine is a demanding profession that leaves little time for domestic concerns. Spouses take up the slack, “thinking to themselves that such burdens are temporary and are more than offset by the anticipated benefits that will eventually come.”

However, their research indicates that in terms of spending time together, “tomorrow” may never come, Dr. Gabbard says.

So does that mean that medical marriages are doomed from the start? The answer to that is tricky. While relationship advice books like “The Magic of Making Up” can certainly help prevent break ups, a mere book won’t solve every problem.

One recent study, also published in JAMA last year, indicates that, contrary to longstanding myth, physicians’ marriages tend to outlast those of the general population, including other professionals.

But an earlier study, conducted in 1985, suggested that physicians who marry before or during medical school have a somewhat higher divorce rate than those who marry after school.

Most couples interviewed for this article-described themselves as handling the massive pressures on their marriage fairly well. Many have said that the strategies and techniques provided by “The Magic of Making Up” have successfully repaired any break ups the couple might have experienced.

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