How To Get Back Together With Your Ex

Breaking up with someone you still love is painful. You feel empty, confused, and just plain miserable.

The good news is that there are ways to repair your relationship and get back together.

The problem is that most people who want to fix a relationship act too emotionally, and this only pushes the other person further away.

That’s right, most of us do the exact opposite thing we should be doing when trying to rekindle a romance!

So what should a person do if he or she wants to get back together with an ex?

Everything you need to know about repairing a relationship can be found in a remarkable little book called “The Magic of Making Up”.

Now considered a classic, this controversial book is both loved and hated by relationship experts.

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Why is The Magic of Making Up So Controversial?

“The Magic of Making Up” has offended some people because it teaches people to manipulate the situation to their advantage. Some consider it unethical. But it’s hard to argue with success.

Thousands of men and women have successfully reunited with their ex-boyfriend or girlfriend by following the strategies and advice in “The Magic of Making Up”. And it’s saved countless marriages.

Some critics don’t like the fact that the author doesn’t have degrees or certifications. Others say why does he need them? The important thing is that he is truly an expert when it comes to relationships. Few people know how to influence the behavior and emotions of others as well as he does.

The author’s name is T.W. Jackson. Even he admits that his advice is unconventional. And he worries that his methods will be used for less than honorable intentions.

T.W. Jackson is no academic. He writes in a simple, conversational style that’s easy to understand. Mr. Jackson himself has a very likeable manner. You can see for yourself in this video, in which he talks about one of the strategies in the book.

One thing that is important to remember is that the methods in “The Magic of Making Up” will not work unless there is still some spark remaining in the relationship. If there is, then that spark can be fanned into a flame by following the plan outlined in the book.

However, if there truly is no love left in the relationship, then nothing can be done to repair it.

If you’re hesitant to buy “The Magic of Making Up” because you’re not sure if it can work for you, please remember that there is a money-back guarantee. Yes, you can easily get your money back if you want to—no questions asked.

Obviously, not everyone who reads this book will get back together with their exes—for a variety of reasons. And the author wants to make sure that people don’t feel ripped off if that’s the case. He’d rather simply return their money.

In order to be eligible for the refund, you must buy the book directly from the official “Magic of Making Up” website. This book is actually an e-book, which means you can download it through your computer and start reading it seconds after ordering it.

“I Want to Get Back Together, But I Don’t Know How”

This is something that T.W. Jackson used to hear a lot when he was in the army. The military has a very high divorce rate, and because Mr. Jackson had such a good reputation as a relationship expert, men and women used to come to him for advice all the time. He had an uncanny knack for getting people back together.

His advice was so good, in fact, that many grateful men and women told him that he should write a book. Which is exactly what he did!

Mr. Jackson didn’t bother with agents, publishers, or bookstores—he wanted to communicate directly with people, so he published “The Magic of Making Up” himself, online. It became an instant bestseller and continues to be one of the bestselling e-books of all time.

Everything You Are Doing and Saying is Wrong!

The bottom line is, if there is even a spark of love left in a relationship, then there is a way to repair a breakup, no matter how awful and unpleasant it was.

The problem is that most people don’t say or do the right things. In fact, they do exactly the opposite. That’s because people act upon their emotions, which is perfectly natural but totally ineffective when trying to get your ex back.

The divorce rate in this country is alarming—more than half of all married couples get divorced! It’s a shame because many of those marriages probably could have been saved if the couple had followed the strategies and methods presented in “The Magic of Making Up”.

Fortunately, Mr. T.W. Jackson has saved many thousands of relationships the world over. And he’s received a great deal of thanks for this. Every day, he receives dozens of letters, cards, and e-mails thanking him for his advice, just as did when he was in the army.

How Do I Know If My Ex Still Loves Me?

One of the biggest questions people have is, “How do I know if my ex still loves me?” After all, if there’s no love left, then why bother buying “The Magic of Making Up” since getting back together is hopeless?

Don’t worry. There are definitely clues as to whether someone still has feelings for you, and “The Magic of Making Up” tells you exactly how to look for and recognize them. You’ll be able to know if there’s still a spark remaining before going to the trouble of trying to win your ex back.

Some other things you’ll learn include a technique that will get your ex to desire you again very quickly. (It’s very counter-intuitive, so most people never do this).

You’ll also learn about a way to convince your ex to agree to go out on a date with you. Does it work? Yes, and it seems very open and natural.

The great thing about all the methods and strategies in “The Magic of Making Up” system is that YOU are in control. You’ll feel empowered, which will give you the strength to persevere and finally get what you want—your ex back in your arms again!

Here’s just a sampling of some of the things you’ll learn about the behavior of men and women in “The Magic of Making Up”:

The secret of how to create an unbreakable bond between yourself and your ex. This secret is the key to why hostages and prisoners, against all logic, sometimes become allies with their kidnappers or jailers. This secret is very subtle, but impossible to defend against.

The #1 reason why men leave women. Surprisingly, it has nothing to do with beauty or age. But it is the one thing that men find most desirable. Learn this and you’ll keep him forever.

The thing that women crave the most. If their man can’t give it to them, they’ll eventually find someone who can. This technique was made famous by Don Juan, who used it to steal married women.

”The Magic of Making Up” book is essential reading for anyone looking to fix a breakup. Not only will it repair a romance, but it can help prevent more breakups in the future. If there’s any one relationship guide you purchase, this is it.

And remember, if for whatever reason you don’t like the book, you can get a full refund, no-questions-asked. But you have to download the book through the official website in order to be eligible to get your money back.

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Marriage Counseling by T.W. Jackson

Men are becoming more willing to admit to marital problems and increasingly seek marriage guidance counselling, according to T.W. Jackson, the author of the best-selling relationship guide “Magic of Making Up”.

Mr. Jackson also finds that more couples are seeking counselling together. Recent studies show that both men and women are trying harder than ever to keep their relationships alive and well.

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Twenty years ago the council interviewed 3,000 couples jointly, 10 years ago the number increased to 38,000, and last year 92,000 couples sought help together.

Of the quarter of a million interviews given by counsellors last year, 18 percent were with men seeking help on their own.

“However embarrassed men may be because of their traditional attitude that they can sort out their own problems, they are now making real efforts to learn what women really want,” Ms. Zelda West-Meads, the council’s spokeswoman, said.

She said that the move towards equal rights in marriage is often held back by some women’s view that their role in marriage should be to bear children.

Overall the numbers seeking marriage guidance counselling increased last year by 11 percent, with 215,000 interviews in 1983-84 and 239,000 in 1984-85.

The council took on 407 new counsellors last year to meet the demand, but admitted that more were desperately needed in inner city areas. More male, Asian and black counsellors are being sought.

The minimum a counsellor is required to work is 120 hours annually. The average, due to demand, is between 140 and 165 hours.

In spite of the overtime being worked by volunteer counsellors, the waiting list for a full interview in some inner city areas can be up to six weeks. However, an initial reception interview is generally given within a week.

A large number of married couples visited marriage guidance councils after an episode of the BBC television serial, EastEnders, in which one of the characters went to her local marriage guidance council.

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Some of the country’s councils reported a 50 percent increase in clients seeking appointments after the episode. The National Marriage Guidance Council’s annual report, published today, emphasizes that publicity, enables people to see the problems they tackle and that ordinary people do seek their help.

Divorce Soviet Style

A startling picture of domestic disharmony in the Soviet Union is painted in a new study, which staged a special round table of Soviet specialists to explain new statistics showing that nearly 50 percent of all marriages in the Soviet capital now end in divorce.

The study, the latest example of the new openness being shown by the official media on social problems that were formerly said not to exist, cited the main reasons why every second family is doomed to perish as drinking, poor housing, sexual difficulties and lack of tradition in modern communist society.

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“Half of all people wanting a divorce cite the drunkenness of one of the spouses – not only his drinking, but her drinking as well. And unfortunately this statistic remains static”, explained Ms. L Mikhailova, a female judge, who was referring to the lack of effect on the soaring divorce rate of Mr. Mikhail Gorbachov’s 15-month old crackdown on alcohol.

Moscow’s chronic housing problems is another factor contributing to the break-up of so many families. “Some couples have nowhere to live together. Officially, neither of them is in need of improved housing conditions (because both sets of parents have enough living space for their one child),” the judge said.

“But it is impossible to live together with his parents or her parents. Having tried reading The Magic of Making Up, having listened to the reproaches of their relatives, having collided with each other in some rented corner, having knocked on every door, the young people can stand it no longer: another divorce.”

The judge also described the depressing problems facing many of Moscow’s newly-divorced couples when they try after the marriage is over to swap their flat for two smaller ones, or for rooms in one of the city’s overcrowded communal flats. “I do not think that I need to explain to anyone what living together after a divorce is like,” the judge added.

Mr. S. Agarkov, a Moscow sexologist, told readers that 40 percent of those filing for divorce had sexual problems. Many Soviet couples, he added, were unaware that a woman’s sexual appetite grew stronger towards the age of 40, while that of a man was fading away.

“Every third marriage and 90 percent of young marriages are characterized by sexual disharmony,” the specialist concluded. “One can sulk, bear a grudge or practice deceit in the kitchen, but there is no room for any pretense or lies in bed.”

A psychotherapist, Dr. Starshenbaum claimed that a growing number of Soviet marriages were short-lived because “traditions have changed, parental authority collapsed ..there is no fear before God or before people. In other words, the external mechanism for keeping families together has weakened.”

Mr. A. Maximov, a reader, said that many divorced wives experienced great difficulty in getting alimony, partly as a result of a law that husbands must pay at least one quarter of their official salary, without reference to other sources of income.

“Some wives spend all their free time looking for a spouse who has disappeared and others get 20 roubles or so (about pounds 20) because the father has work as a night watchman so that he can make money on the side in his free time.”